SAY ANYTHING celebrates 31 years since it was originally released on April 14th, 1989 and it remains the greatest movie of all timeā¦for me. Since I first saw it in 1997, it has shaped my life, friendships, career, humor, and musical taste.
Hereās my top ten list of the lessons learned in this classic film via quotes:
Your parents are flawed human beings that are just trying to make good choices but can and will mess up. āJust knowing a person like that exists, knowing that for a minute that she felt that and wrote āI still canāt help loving you. Thatās gotta be a good thing, right?
The act of falling in and out of loveā¦and back in again. āNobody thinks that it will work, do they?ā āNo. You just described every great success story.ā
The fear of closing the door on your youth and moving out into the āreal world.ā āIāve glimpsed our future, and all I can say isā¦ā Go Backāā¦but when I think about the future, the truth is, I am reallyā¦scaredā
What it means to be a gentleman. āThe world is full of guys. Be a man. Donāt be a guy.ā
The value of being in a good mood. āWhy canāt you be in a good mood? How hard is it to decide to be in a good mood and be in a good mood once in a while?ā
Not knowing what your future career is, but being okay with that. āHow many of them really know what they want, though? I mean, a lot of them think they have to know, right? But inside they donāt really know, soā¦I donāt know, but I know that I donāt know.ā
How to pitch yourself to the father of the woman of your dreams. āWhat I really want to do with my life ā what I want to do for a living ā is I want to be with your daughter. Iām good at it.ā
How to draw the line at seven unreturned phone calls. āI draw the line at seven unreturned phone calls.ā
Never give a pen to someone in a break-up. āI gave her my heart and she gave me a pen.ā
Eat healthily. āThereās no food in your food.ā
Since you cannot be in a public parking lot and kick glass out of the way for your significant other, be more like Lloyd Dobler in this time of social distancing and play āIn Your Eyesā on a boombox (hopefully Sonos) from 6+ feet away. Oh, and if your name is Joeā¦stop lying.
It is available to stream on Hulu.

