13: THE MUSICAL was originally on Broadway. It is a story about that special time in a young Jewish boyâs or girlâs life. At age 13 (12 for girls), the Bar Mitzvah boy stands in front of the entire synagogue to sing a portion from the Torah, gives a meaningful speech, and then has a âkick-assâ party for all their friends. It takes months of training and hard work. Most just remember their âcoolâ celebratory party. And now, the Bar Mitzvah boy is considered a âman.â No pressure.Â
This film had some amazing songs and dances that featured a talented ensemble. They were expressive beyond their young years. The music and lyrics pushed the story forward each time and added to the magic of a âBroadway musicalâ production. The plot included heavier topics, such as divorce, finding who you are, moving away from your hometown, making friends, and forgiveness. Heavy for a supposed light and breezy movie dealing with middle school angst.Â
13: THE MUSICALâs biggest fault (some will say) is that it was very one-dimensional and, at times, shallow. Perhaps, the young Bar Mitzvah boy Evan (Eli Golden) should have dug deeper to peel those layers away. And the same could be said for his Mom (Debra Messing) and his Grandmother (Rhea Perlman). Hereâs my take⌠I didnât care. I enjoyed this stroll through memory lane for my son and daughterâs big day. I remember how difficult it was for Aaron to maneuver through the âtraditionalâ stuff to get to his party of a lifetime. This movie even took me âwaaayâ back to my Bat Mitzvah and party. It meant everything to me as a young woman (As well as planning my own first kiss with my boyfriend, Cliff). Milestone moments for sure.Â
13: THE MUSICAL offered great, sound advice for tweens. It was told from their perspective. There were strong, sound, seconds everyone should hear. It is not âdeep.â It is not meant to be. Enjoy it for what it is. I know I did.Â
13: THE MUSICAL is available to stream on NETFLIX.

